weary as water

every time i blink i have a tiny dream

Book 23: Outliers by Malcolm Gladwell

Outliers: The Story of Success is another one of those straightforward “why didn’t I think of that” books. The premise of the book is that success is something that can be cultivated, but that circumstances surrounding a person can influence “success” a great deal. For instance, if you want your son to be a successful hockey player, you should try to have them born in January, February or March. That gives them a slight advantage physically when they are playing junior league hockey – a kid born in January will be bigger and faster than a kid born in December, but they will play on the same team. That slight advantage will turn into a larger advantage as the kid grows up – obviously the kid has to have talent, but if he does have talent, being bigger than other kids his age is a definite advantage. Gladwell also talks about the 10,000 Hour Rule – basically, it takes ten thousand hours to master a skill. Professional musicians? They practice their asses off, so by the time they reach college they have amassed more practice time than their peers. Same thing with athletes and technology gurus.

This book is an easy read because it is filled with interesting stories of people’s lives. And also plane crashes.

3.5/5
309 pages

P.S. I have been a reading fiend lately. We’re on week 38 of the year, so I’m only 18 books behind. The race is on!

Book 22: The Outlander by Gil Adamson

The Outlander tells a story of a widow being chased through the mountains of the northwest by her creepy ginger headed twin brother in laws. She is unapologetically mad – she sees visions and hears voices and is generally unkempt. She survives although she probably shouldn’t, mostly based on the generosity (or naivety) of strangers.

This book is a fast, exciting read. I couldn’t put it down once I got started (although it stayed on my to-read stack for longer than it should have).

400 pages
4/5

encores

I was talking with my friend Joel about the amazing Jeff Mangum show we saw in Boston, and how special the second encore was when we had to work for it. Joel looked amused and said that is how encores back in the day used to be – they weren’t automatic. He went on to tell me about this show he saw at Boutwell Auditorium – the Allman Brothers were playing and for some reason the cops were out in full force and they most definitely did not want anyone standing during the show. There was this one guy who kept standing up, and the cops kept going over to his seat and making him sit down. He’d stay seated for a minute or two, and then stood back up again. This went on and on until finally they made him leave the concert. After that, everyone in the auditorium stood up and wouldn’t sit down. The cops stopped the show. Reinforcements arrived with billy clubs, waiting outside the doors in case there was a riot. Father Tree – a local DJ who was famous for playing entire albums on his shows – and the concert promoters went and talked to the cops. Finally they reached an agreement. If everyone in the audience would sit down – and remain seated – the Allman Brothers could come back for one more song.

I was like, oh yeah, that’s cool. Joel started laughing and said “Do you know how long an Allman brothers song is? They played for twenty or thirty minutes!”.

Book 21: Blood, Bones & Butter by Gabrielle Hamilton

I thought this book would be full of stories about restaurants, but instead it is full of kitchens. And it is not so much a book of stories about kitchens as it is an unflinchingly honest memoir of Gabrielle Hamilton, from childhood to her current life as chef/owner of Prune, a high-end restaurant in NYC. I got a little bored about halfway through the book, but it picks up again, and I’m glad I finished it.

304 pages
3/5

Book 20: The Particular Sadness of Lemon Cake by Aimee Bender

I really enjoyed this book. Basically it is about a girl who at the age of twelve discovers she can taste the emotions of people who cook the food she eats. (And since her mother cooks a lot of her food, she has special insight into her mother’s innermost secrets). She eventually fine tunes it, and is able to tell the origin of the ingredients (an organic tomato from a particular farm in california, or a factory in omaha). Her other family members have special gifts, as well. Maybe gifts is the wrong word.

4.5/5
292 pages

Boston: What We Came For

Jeff Mangum was amazing live – I never expected to see him live, so it was an honest to god dream come true. He played a full set, came back out for one encore, and then even though we gave him another standing ovation the house lights came up and the background music came up over the PA. We kept clapping & yelling & stomping & banging, and about 8 minutes of this went by and he finally came back on stage to play one more song. (I mean, we waited 10 years to see him, what is 10 minutes of standing?)

There’s a nice writeup here.

And if you’d like to know what I felt like at 7:10pm on Saturday night, after waiting at the bus stop for over 45 minutes with no bus in sight and the start to the show 50 minutes away, well, it was pretty much like this, except with cursing.



Boston. So Far.

We arrived in Boston on a drizzly Thursday afternoon, made our way to our fabulous airbnb room (the bathroom itself is worth the visit), and then headed out to davis square for something to eat. We ended up at redbones (a rib place) – the pulled pork was pretty good and the vinegar sauce made it amazing. Emily had the brisket which was a little dry but pretty good. I had a 15th Anniversary Escondidian Imperial Black IPA to drink – super excellent. We walked and walked and walked – around Davis square, then to Harvard and around Harvard Yard. Emily says:

“Harvard is just as surreal as one would imagine…students waxing philosophical on the greens, students playing classical flute and violin out of their dorm windows, girls practicing ballet in high studio windows, at least one over extended asperger student stuttering complex formulas aloud in repetitive fashion, and an exorbitant number of blond boys in khakis and silk striped ties looking like they owned the place. It was both frightening and strangely comforting…”

We headed back to Davis square for a nightcap (Harpoon Belgian Pale Ale on cask & Shipyard’s Smashed Pumpkin – meh) – then tried to sneak back into the house without waking the other guests. No go – Roberto’s very friendly & enthusiastic rottweiler/doberman mix barked for ten minutes after we arrived.

Friday morning we headed to the Isabella Gardner Museum – a place highly recommended by one of Emily’s coworkers, metafilter, and our gracious host Roberto.

Boston. Fenway Court. Court. View from the entrance
Boston. Fenway Court. View from the entrance by Boston Public Library, on Flickr

The Isabella Gardner museum is a fabulous place, curated by Isabella from the ground up as a gallery. Everything in the museum is exactly as it was on the day she died, and a stipulation of her will is that the collection must remain that way or the entire collection must be sold. She combined art from different countries and eras – she loved tapestries and sculpture and portraits – and it is a truly magical place.

After a few hours there we went to have lunch at the Buddhist Cultural Center – turnip cakes & veggies & tofu & tea. Super delicious. We walked from the Central T stop down to MIT. Walked along the Charles River, watched the sailboats turn and dip in tandem. Walked across Longfellow Bridge, through Beacon Hill, to the Boston Commons. Walked all around there, too, and through the Gardens where we watched the ducks and swans. A guy was playing a weird instrument – part guitar, part accordion, part wind up box – it was cool to watch but annoying to listen to. Ended up at the Intermission Bar in the theatre district, drank more beer (Sam Adams Brick Red) and had some deep fried pita bread w/ red pepper hummus. Met an interesting artist from St. Augustine who convinced us to go to Cuba. We did not get to try the pineapple vodka (the bartender advised waiting: “it’s not good until the pineapple looks nasty”). Stumbled back to the house around midnight.

Book 19: Rammer Jammer Yellow Hammer: A Road Trip Into the Heart of Fan Mania by Warren Saint John

I’ve lived in Alabama for 12 years now, and I still have yet to understand the college football fanatic. Sure, I’ve been to a few football games and even tailgated at the Auburn-Alabama game (in Auburn) – I’ve watched the game with die hard fans who call their bookies at the beginning of every quarter to make a new bet – but I still don’t really understand the football fan(atic). This book follows the biggest of the college football fans – the RV crowd – through a season of Alabama football. The author, a lifelong Alabama fan, ends up buying a RV and joining the fray. For the first time, I understand a little bit about the mindset of the college football superfan.

288 pages
3.5/5

Book 18: Freakonomics by Steven D. Levitt and Stephen J. Dubner

I’ve been hearing about this book for years, but never really felt compelled to read it. Now that I’m finished with the “enhanced” version (which includes articles from the New York Post & Freakonomics blog), I owner what took me so long. It’s a fairly easy read, reminiscent of (but not quite as fascinating as) Predictably Irrational. If this sort of thing is interesting to you, check out the you are not so smart blog.

151 pages (not counting the notes or bibliography)
3/5

Book 17: One Day by David Nicholls

One Day is the story of a friendship between Dexter and Emma – two very different people who have that spark that binds them together even though they spend most of their lives apart. They spend college graduation night together, with no intentions of carrying on much of a friendship, and they spend their entire lives chasing the dream of one another through failed jobs and terrible relationships. It’s a fairly unhappy book, but not altogether depressing, and it’s a quick read.

3.5/5
261 pages